Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With is a relationship self help book that walks you through specific issues of couples and shows you how to resolve each one. Is the romance gone? Is he no longer helpful? Do you want to be more of a priority to him again? Learn how to make deals, whether it’s about treating you with more respect, helping with housework, dealing with each others friends, or handling money issues, plus other valuable behavior modification techniques. I’ll help you get back the loving and cooperative man you met.
Bring Back the Man You Fell in Love With shows you that by changing your own behavior, you can change his too. Couples in trouble tell me, “We were fighting over silly things and feeling so unloved by each other. Now were making lots of deals and are emotionally close again. Resolving our relationship problems seems so simple when you explain it”.
9 Steps to Resolving Issues In Your Relationship
- Stop blaming him or her, it takes two to have a bad relationship.
- Recognize which role you play: the victim or controller.
- Change your behavior, instead of trying to change his (or hers).
- Use behavior modification instead of nagging to get what you want.
- Recognize your mate’s insecurities.
- Become an equal partner by taking equal control and responsibility
- Communicate your needs and recognize his (or her) needs, then make a win/win deal.
- Negotiate a deal that works for both of you for each problem area.
- Have consequences for broken deals, and pull back when he/she doesn’t cooperate.