It was shocking when we heard Dr. Fauci say something like kissing is not okay when meeting new people online, but sex is. It’s kind of putting the cart before the horse as far as the kind of relationship advice I give, but I guess he’s just talking about germs that cause the virus. And I’m sure it depends on…
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Dealing with COVID Isolation
Unless you are an introvert, you are probably struggling with the isolation that has come with dealing with this virus. Actually, even people I know that are introverts are struggling with it. All we can do right now is focus on what we can control. If you are struggling, here are some pointers you can try. Go ahead and feel…
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Handling Your Mate During the Pandemic
We may be in love with our mate, but spending 24/7 together can bring out the worst in us. Then add kids home from school to the mix and all hell can break loose. Let’s review some relationship tips to help everyone get along during this difficult time. During this pandemic, couples are arguing about a multitude of things, i.e….
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She Used Me!
Jerry, a 34-year-old, single male described himself as a basket case when he first called me because his girlfriend had just broken up with him. Recently divorced, he was excited when he ran into a woman he had been attracted to before he was married. Susan and he really hit it off this time. He really fell hard for her…
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Handling Family Differences at Christmas
As we get older and grow and change and grow in different directions, it can be difficult to deal with our families, especially at Christmas, especially if you’re staying with them. It can cause frustration, self-doubt, and arguments. Suppose you sleep late, and they get up early, their favorite food is lasagna and you’re on a diet; you drink and…
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10 Valentine Love Secrets
Make “having fun together” a priority. Work and children and every day life are all important issues, but “fun” is the glue that bonds two lovers. Talk about the good times. Create good memories now, and then reminisce. Never forget why you choose to be with this person. Don’t keep secrets. Secrets erode the love and the trust. You can…
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